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Sunday, September 22, 2013

Congratulations, Megan and Matt!


Today my cousin Megan weds the man of her dreams, and he weds the woman of his.  Here is there wedding poem, Cherish.

Have a marvelous day!


Here they are, two lovers
Serendipitously brought together by friends
She fell in love with Matt’s quirky sense of humor
And his steadfast loyalty and patience
He , in turn, loved Megan for her beauty,
Inside and out, for within radiated a kindness
That he had never experienced before

Today Megan and Matt begin the dance that joins man to woman
Before God, with loving friends and family surrounding
This day will they join hands and hearts with spoken vows,
Words that will weave them together into a tapestry of one
And seal that moment with the sweetest kiss
And a promise to love, and to cherish, forevermore
Then may their joy be shared as they face the congregation
For the first time as Mr. and Mrs. Matthew Colton
September 22, 2013

by, Joan Ellen Gage

Monday, September 16, 2013

I'm Falling Apart, and Other Stories!


Yes, it's true; I am still out of work.  What is up with that?, you ask.  Well, I still have significantly reduced mobility in my neck.  It is better, as it was 5% and is now 20-25%.

The exciting news is that I have a torn rotator cuff in my right shoulder.  I don't know how this happened.  I was doing a lot of upper body exercises and using giant rubber bands in PT.  The shoulder started to hurt more than usual.

Since I had a referral for the left shoulder over 2 years ago, I decided to have both shoulders looked at.  After all, I have time to do that.  Both shoulders have bone spurs--arthritis.  The right one turned out to have a tear.

So, I'm going to have surgery, and will be out the rest of the year.  I will stay positive, and hope for less painful shoulders, and more mobility, ultimately, in my neck.

The best part of having some time is I get to write and make crazy photos with Photoshop.  I have a new book nearing completion, and I'm trying to get it done before I lose most of my right arm usage.  It's going to be a  very close deadline.

Enjoy the  poem below from the new book, A Redhead Looks At 60.

Have a blessed day,



Future Vision

I want to live in a society

Where varicose veins rock

And flabby thighs are sexy

Where the more chins you have

The more you are admired

I want to live in a society

Where moving up a size is envied

And throngs of women want to know

How did you do that?

I want to live in a society

Where the deeper the lines on your face

The handsomer the women look

And the grayer your hair is

The more enlightened you appear

But mostly, I want to live

In a society, where kindness abounds

Where you are accepted, loved

And treasured as you grow older

This is what we all deserve

Let us not judge one another harshly

And be who we were born to be—awesome—pass it on!

Sunday, April 21, 2013

Thoughts on Running Away from the Circus. . .

O.K. what is this tomfoolery about running away from the circus?  What circus, well, maybe the working world as we know it. 

Sometimes things happen that interrupt our lives.  Things like, going in to surgery for a new neck and being told that your bone was soft and you would have to wear a collar for at least 6 to 8 weeks.  What happened to 2 to 3 weeks depending on how everything heals?  Well, there goes your occupation, just like that, for the present.

But, the most important thing in this life is being present, and there is no more being present than this.  I am embracing the new "embryo" bone graft etc. in my neck, that is healing there.  I am present in my lounge chair view of the world.  About 3:00 PM I get to thinking about taking a  what?  Yes, a nap, hee, hee!

Things will progress in the day's ahead, I am not in control.  Somehow, I am O,K. with that, as amazing as it seems.

For now, I will underacheive and hope to get a NC visit in the near future if the Docs will release me to do so.

Peace Out!  Here is a quote from David Carradine:

"If you cannot be a poet, be the poem."


P.S. Since I'm going circus, here is my sweet youngest Granddaughter, starring in one of her book's creations!


Sunday, March 31, 2013



Welcome friends!

A lovely spring day it is!  Happy Easter to all of my friends who are celebrating today.  I can hear the sounds of many very full and grumbling stomachs from all of the feasting!

Life is going along at a good clip, you might say that I am springing ahead!  At least I am springing forward, due to the time change.

I have just completed a children's book for my lovely youngest Granddaughter, Trinity.  Her book was just published on Create Space, an Amazon company.  I should receive my books in a few days.

As many of may know, I love creating with photos.  This book, Trinity's Adventures in Imagination, is a birthday gift for my Granddaughter.  I have photo-shopped Trinity into some wonderful scenes, and each photo has a rhyme to go with it.   I am hoping she loves the book!

Here are some blessings for you from John O'Donohue!



John O'Donohue “For Equilibrium, a Blessing:
Like the joy of the sea coming home to shore,
May the relief of laughter rinse through your soul.

As the wind loves to call things to dance,
May your gravity by lightened by grace.

Like the dignity of moonlight restoring the earth,
May your thoughts incline with reverence and respect.

As water takes whatever shape it is in,
So free may you be about who you become.

As silence smiles on the other side of what's said,
May your sense of irony bring perspective.

As time remains free of all that it frames,
May your mind stay clear of all it names.

May your prayer of listening deepen enough
to hear in the depths the laughter of god.”
John O'Donohue, To Bless the Space Between Us: A Book of Ble

Sunday, February 3, 2013



Yes, Winter is here, at the moment.  I am enjoying 50 degrees in the mornings; this is great for sleeping!  We are fortunate not to have had a freeze or frost, so the vegetation still looks marvelous!

I  am returning to writing with the help of Simple Abundance by Sarah Ban  Breathnach.  This book requires writing a gratitude journal and following a day- book's recommendations for a year that highlights the simple joys of living and discovering your authentic self.

As  usual, I am struggling with living in the now; but I am doing better with my "program" in place.  I am coming off many months of gathering documents and taking my North Carolina Dental Hygiene Boards--which I passed--Yeah!  

So, I am discovering the winter of my content.  I am spending a little bit of time  being focused; albeit, a blurry focus at that!

Message today=be thankful for the blessings of winter, which allow us to pause a little more often and count these blessings! 

Here are some winter haiku's by poet Charles de Lint,  to commemorate the recent full moon and to help you feel snug in the warmth of your nests!

Blessing and Great Joy!


Winter Haiku

by Charles de Lint

Moonlight casts a pale
blue light on the snow, winter
perfect, cold and brisk

Moonlight rides like a
ghost across the midnight snow;
its song is silence

Sunday, January 20, 2013

Happy Birthday Magnolia! You're 50!


My darling dog is 8 years old today!  That translates to 50 in people years, so she is catching up to me!

Magnolia and I have been through a lot together, moving to central Florida, spending considerable time going  back and forth to North Carolina, and being by Rob's and my side on a daily basis.

Today I honor "Maggie" in enriching my life with her playfulness and her unconditional love.
Here is the link for "our" video from my first book, Water Running Downhill!



Friday, December 21, 2012

Keep Joy in Your Heart This Season!


I wish all of my friends a joyous season.  May you be with loved ones, and if you are journeying may you be safe.

Enjoy this special time of year and don't forget to keep joy in your heart and share it!

Blessings (And here's and Irish one!)

Wishing you always...
Walls for the wind,
A roof for the rain
And tea beside the fire.
Laughter to cheer you,
Those you love near you,
And all that your heart may desire